A Comprehensive Guide for First-Time Buyers: How to Choose the Perfect Women’s Erotic Toys

Perfect Tips for Girls to Choose Sex Toys

Are you a curious woman wondering about electric toys but unsure how to choose? Skeptical about the exaggerated claims in advertisements? As a former employee of a toy company and a sex education instructor, I’ve put together an extensive guide to women’s toys to guide you through this world!

My name is Luna, a sex education instructor graduated from Peking University, and I have worked in a toy company for 3 years, where I’ve seen a multitude of products.

I often receive inquiries from netizens about buying toys:

• Afraid of making a wrong choice the first time, seeking advice from experienced users?

• How to choose between Dou Dou Niao and Boli? They seem so similar!

• Are the marketing claims really that great?

Today, I’ve summarized an incredibly detailed guide to women’s toys, based on customer feedback and personal reviews, to introduce you to the world of toys!

Here’s a photo from my previous work to establish credibility:

01 Classification of Erotic World The scope of erotic products is vast.

From the perspective of users: there are women’s toys, men’s toys, same-sex partners, long-distance couples, postpartum mothers, and people with special preferences, etc.

From the perspective of function: I personally summarize two main parts, one for key areas and the other for the whole body.

For key areas: electric toys, airplane cups, Kegel balls, anal products, lubricants, arousal enhancement products, delay products, etc.

For the whole body, it can be distinguished according to the body’s sense of perception: touch (massage essential oils, leather whips, feathers); vision (candles, lingerie, handcuffs); taste (edible lubrication/massage gel); smell (perfumed perfumes)…

This classification overlaps, for example, lingerie also has a tactile feel, and low-temperature candles can be used for lighting and dripping…

The erotic world is too big, and today I only introduce women’s toys.

02 Selection Factors The most important thing is the product quality and store after-sales service. There is a simple principle: choose a reliable brand.

The naming of toys is mostly brand + nickname, such as Kisstoy Boli, Meidong Flamingo, Svakom Iris, the former is the brand.

I think these brands are of good quality: Svakom, Kisstoy, NetEase Spring Breeze, Meidong, iobanana… (Disclaimer: Not mentioned does not mean it’s not good.)

As an electrical product, there is a small probability of problems, and after-sales service is also very important, so you need to find a store with good after-sales service.

Does it conform to human science and Asian women? Choose curved rods to conform to the internal structure characteristics. Don’t even look at the straight ones!

Here, I criticize Durex for still selling straight rods. Who can help tell them?

The original European and American products are too large, and beginners should not start with them. For example, Lelo and Fun Factory are not very suitable for domestic conditions.

Small toys like jumping eggs are for external use. If they are claimed to be amazing for internal use, it’s nonsense.

Visual and Privacy Nowadays, toys on the market are getting better-looking, with lipstick, small animal shapes, and high privacy.

Friends who are worried about being discovered by parents or roommates in the same room should prioritize privacy.

For example, this lipstick toy is very secretive:

Here’s a counterexample. Some guys ask if they should give their girlfriends a fake penis. I personally find it eye-catching…

Noise Level Generally, the product is between 50-70 decibels, and the well-made ones are below 50 decibels.

There is no completely silent product, and electrical appliances cannot be silent~ You can cover it with a quilt to reduce the noise.

Rest assured, the sound of the toy will not be heard by the next door, but it will definitely be heard in the same room.

It is recommended to play music or movies to cover up when using it in a dormitory. If you want to be completely quiet, you might as well go back to your hands.

Charging Method and Waterproof I don’t recommend battery toys.

There are various ways to charge toys, such as magnetic adsorption, plug-in, and box charging. The waterproof performance of the plug-in is slightly worse. Most toys have a usage time of 90-120 minutes. Charge in advance and play with peace of mind. Products have different waterproof levels. Friends who like to play in the bathroom can check the waterproof level, whether it can be rinsed in the shower or soaked in the bathtub.

The one on the left is called magnetic charging, which has better waterproof performance.

03 External Play Toys

There are three stimulation methods for women’s external toys: vibration, suction, and C-point pen, and some toys have two functions.

Some people ask if a virgin can buy a toy, of course, she can! The most important point for women (clitoris) is on the outside.

External Vibration Products

Small vibration toys, also known as jumping eggs, are the most classic women’s toys.

Large massage Ai Wei bang is not recommended. It’s too strong and easy to numb, and it’s not good-looking~

Jumping eggs are used externally, and it’s normal to have no feeling inside. The outside key point is sensitive to vibration, while the inside is relatively dull. Too many men and women have made mistakes following the action movies!

How should beginners choose? Start with soft silicone products (plastic has a stronger vibration). Vibration mode, there should be three stable intensity options, not too many in total. Change mode, music variation, these are not very significant.

For example: Iobanana’s cat’s paw is very cute, and the first generation of vibration is more in place. It has a heating function, which can warm hands and the palace, and is claimed to be a warm baby, which is a good idea!

Suction Toys

Suction toys are a black technology invented by the German Womanizer brand in this century.

It doesn’t really suck in, but it sprays high-frequency air outwards, which feels like sucking. Because the range of attack is more focused and deep than vibration, it is more likely to cause a chaotic discharge phenomenon, and it is highly recommended for women to try.

With suction toys becoming popular in the market, simple vibration toys have become a bit outdated~

Some people ask, many toy advertisements, are the products so perfect?

Advertising copy only writes advantages, but no product is perfect. As a company employee, I personally test and listen to customer feedback, knowing that products have advantages and disadvantages.

The picture above is the Dou Dou Niao that created advertising marketing and became popular.

For example, many people are entangled in how to choose between Boli and Dou Dou Niao.

Dou Dou Niao’s appearance and privacy are great. Boli’s voice is a bit loud. Boli’s strength is more gentle, more like a kiss, and Dou Dou Niao is more powerful. Boli has a handle that is easy to hold and more convenient to use.

Because I like a gentle experience + handle, I recommend Boli more. If you like the appearance of the bird + privacy, choose it.

C-point Pen

It’s a technology similar to a toothbrush, and it’s a new type of toy invented by foreign toys. Players say that this gear is equal to the highest gear of the jumping egg, and they kneel down as soon as they come up.

Newcomers should be cautious, this is too fierce for you!

04 Internal Development

Internal massage rods are divided into two types, single-headed or double-headed.

Double-headed means there is a branch to take care of the outside key point.

Many girls bought a single-headed rod and then had no feeling. Remember! The comprehensive development of the inside is the king! The bean is always the key point! Don’t forget to use external toys.

Regardless of single or double heads, choose curved and firm ones to develop in multiple directions inside.

Newcomers should choose thinner products. 3.5cm is considered large and not very friendly for beginners to try. It is recommended to start with 2cm for young empty windows, and experienced women can try 3cm. I personally recommend Cici and Iris very much.

The mode should also have stable choices of strength, and it is best not to exceed 7, otherwise, you have to turn off to find the preferred mode. I have encountered more than 30 kinds of vibration frequencies, I play you or you play me…

This is why I think Cici/Iris is perfect: there are 5 vibration modes, each with 5 strengths, 25 choices to meet all needs, and moreover, it is very durable and of good quality!

When it comes to double-headed toys, netizens ask, should they buy a double.

When it comes to double-ended toys, Fans ask whether to buy a dual-vibration one or a combination of suction and vibration. It really depends on your previous explorations; do you prefer vibration or suction externally?

I haven’t reviewed these combination products yet, so it’s hard to make a recommendation. In terms of shape, new players might choose a thinner one, while experienced players who enjoy a sense of fullness might opt for a larger one.

It’s also a good idea to buy a suction device separately from a single-ended rod. For example, the combination of Polly first generation and Iris, which I have recommended to many women. Because many times, women just play around the outside and do not want to enter the body. In this way, they can vibrate and suction externally, and combine for internal development… Pleasure comes in many flavors.

05 Player Notes

Toys are not rivals of lovers, but helpers.

People worry that toys will make women not want men anymore. How can electrical devices compare to humans!

Toys only act on a certain area and cannot act on the whole body and soul. Sex is a whole-body, skin, and five-sense experience. Lovers who understand this can bring warm affection.

They can be used together when two people are together, and smart men can use electrical devices to help themselves relieve stress.

If a man really wants to compete with a toy, he can’t win, as he can’t last for two hours or emit air pulses…

Accept self-pleasure

Before buying a toy, it’s best to learn to do it yourself and accept self-pleasure. After being able to provide for yourself, using a toy is the icing on the cake.

If you’ve never done it yourself and start with a product, the intensity might be too strong and may cause psychological shadows.

Some girls also want to try to break through to the peak with a toy, which depends on lucky. Many people have privately messaged me about the ecstasy of breaking through, but not everyone is guaranteed success.